The wedding of your dreams needs only to have yourself and your partner, an officiant, and love.
All of the other things, while they can add to the experience of the overall day, are added stresses and distractions.
The piece that follows offers help for keeping your perspective and really enjoying your wedding.
Understand that religious faith will influence both what your wedding looks like and your relationship going forward. Make time to talk to your fiance and their family about their religion.
For more cost-effective weddings, try choosing a date that is atypical to the wedding season. The wedding season traditionally begins in May lasting through September. This will be the time where the costs are the highest. If you plan on getting married during these months, plan as early as you can for the lowest cost.
Buying your wedding dress may be expensive. To save money, consider looking at dresses that have the same appeal as a wedding gown, but aren’t categorized as such. A Bridesmaid dress can be a good fit, and it doesn’t cost half as much as a wedding dress does. Even if you think you would like to change it in some way, it should be less expensive than if you bought a wedding dress.
Tie in small decorative items to your wedding decor. Use a similar ribbon for your bouquet as that on your gown or your centerpieces. These tiny details will give guests an idea of how hard you have worked to create a dream wedding.
Take your time when writing your wedding vows; this shows that you care about your significant other. The vows should reflect the fact that marriage is not easy and will require sacrifice on the part of both partners. Write your vows so that they express your love for your spouse and remind you of why you love them.
If you cannot justify the cost of a thousand-dollar wedding cake, consider contacting a local bakery and inquiring about single-serving portions, like cupcakes or cake pops. There are boutiques that will bake fresh cupcakes with very few calories specifically for your event, and deliver them. These boutiques also often have healthy options available such as gluten-free, fruit-based fillings instead of frosting, and healthier alternative toppings.
While you should always let your DJ know what songs you want to be played for your reception, it is just as important to alert him to any songs you do not like or want playing. It could be a special song representing “old love”, a heavy metal song, or a country song. Whatever the case may be, be sure the DJ does not play it, and avoid becoming upset at your wedding.
Shop around for your photographer before making a commitment for the big day. You don’t want to end up with wedding pictures that you’re unhappy with. To find some talented photographers near you, look for reviews online, or see if friends or family can recommend anyone.
When planning your wedding, start with the essentials. A lot of the other aspects can change depending on religion, cultural or personal interests. While some can add enjoyment, they can also be sources of stress and frustration. Think about what you’ve read in this article. You want your guests to be happy, but the most important thing is that you and your spouse are happy while planning the wedding and on your wedding day.